文章轉(zhuǎn)載自 21英語(yǔ)微商城 21世紀(jì)英文報(bào) 有人把你激怒了，該怎么應(yīng)對(duì)？ 千萬(wàn)不要打回去…… 這些智慧的表達(dá)方式可以幫到你 （難道這就是“高情商”？） Using the power of words Our language is a powerful tool. But, instead of criticizing people, it pays to use our words wisely. These tips can help: 我們的語(yǔ)言是一個(gè)強(qiáng)大的工具。但是，與其用它批評(píng)或嘲諷別人，不如更聰明地使用我們的語(yǔ)言。看看下面的建議吧： For example, if someone got upset with you, what would you say back? These remarks might work: “I know you’re upset, but calm down and we’ll talk.” “You’re pushing all my buttons. I take offence at (對(duì)......生氣) some of your language.” “We’re both adults here. Let’s not act crazy toward each other.” 舉個(gè)例子：如果有人沖你發(fā)火，你會(huì)怎么回應(yīng)他？這句話可能有用:“我知道你很生氣，但不如冷靜一下，我們談?wù)勗趺礃樱?rdquo;、“你讓我生氣了，我對(duì)你的一些表達(dá)不太滿意。”、“我們都是成年人了，不如冷靜一點(diǎn)處理問題。” The point is that you want to speak up for yourself. But you don’t want to ignite an explosion (激起怒火). State your feelings in a mature way. Intelligent language steers (引導(dǎo)) us toward good outcomes. 重點(diǎn)是你想表達(dá)自己的想法，但并不想激怒對(duì)方，那不如用更成熟的語(yǔ)句表達(dá)你的感受。聰明的語(yǔ)言表讓我們的生活更美好。
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